02/18/2026
We’re beyond excited to welcome **Virgins On Fire Candle Co.** to all All Poetica locations.
These aren’t just candles. They come with sharp wit, bold humor, and unapologetic attitude. We’ve spoken with founder Jesse in the past about working together, but the timing never quite aligned. Now the universe has decided it’s time, and we couldn’t be happier.
My personal favorite is “Scatter My Ashes on the F Train.” You’ll have to come in and find yours.
Virgins On Fire was launched in June 2020 with a mission rooted in creative and financial independence. It’s about shedding the 9–5 cubicle life, the endless meetings, the uninspired work, the low pay, and yes, whoever keeps microwaving salmon in the office kitchen.
This brand stands for buying the cabin, protecting your joy, queerness, freedom of thought, eccentric people, unique places, and funny ideas. It’s about liberation from the bu****it, pushing back against hateful laws, burning bras, and rejecting the “pure” life others expect you to live. It’s about igniting your own way forward.
A Jersey boy with a city attitude, Jesse runs Virgins full time. He graduated from **The George Washington University** with a degree in Political Science and Communications. Over the years, he has worked as a fundraiser for one of the country’s top art and design colleges, an administrator for NYC’s largest community-based food pantry, and a community organizer on two winning presidential campaigns.
Jesse lives in Brooklyn with his partner Ron and their rescue pup, Rockwell “Rocky” Rufferman.
He is also the author of *F*ck It, I’m Buying a Cabin*, published by Row House / 100 Block and distributed by **Simon & Schuster**, available wherever books are sold.
We’re proud to bring this bold, funny, freedom-loving brand to you. Find your favorite now at all All Poetica locations.